Success Mindset

Bad Internet Marketing AdviceAt one point, we’ve all asked for advice about online business tips and  Internet marketing tools.  This is especially true when we’re starting out.  Unfortunately there’s a lot of bad information being given by the supposed Internet gurus.  Following this advice can cost you both time and money.

Today I’d like to talk about 19 faulty recommendations I’ve seen in the last few years.  Some of them are due to misinformation.  Others are outright lies told by people trying to sell their particular product.

Read each to learn what advice might be ruining your online business…

#1 – “Do What You Love and the Money will Follow”

This is a warm, fuzzy piece of advice that people love to recommend.  (It’s even included in the ever-popular book Crush It by Gary Vaynerchuck.)

Following your passion is a nice thought.  We all want to create a business by doing what we love.  Unfortunately there a number of hobbies that really aren’t profitable.

Example: What if you’re a guy who likes to drink beer and watch porn?  Sure, that might be what you like to do.   But it’s not going to make a lot of money.

Personal enjoyment is one part of the research process.  You should also look at:

  • How you’ll make money?
  • How many people search for information?
  • How will you get traffic?
  • What makes YOU different from others in this niche?

It’s okay to love your business.  Just make sure it’s not the only piece of the puzzle.

2 – “Think About Success and You’ll Attract It”

Positive thinking is important.  So is having a list of goals.  Unfortunately many people substitute hard work with wishful thinking.  You can’t sit around and hope for success.  Eventually you have to take action!

Don’t let books like The Secret cloud your judgment.  You want something in life?  Then go out and get it.  Nobody makes money simply by thinking about it.

#3 – “You Can Build an Internet Business EVEN if You’re Lazy”

Lazy Online BusinessWarning bells should go off when you hear this statement.  I’ve never heard of anyone having success by being lazy.  Real results take real action.  Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

Also don’t be confused about passive income.  It takes hard work create this type of wealth.

Most people (myself included) bust their butt to increase their passive income.  Successful people don’t sit on a beach and work a few hours a week.

#4 – “Anyone Can Do This!” 

I see this with many Internet business products.  The product owner claims the only skill you need is an ability to turn on the computer.

The harsh reality is some people aren’t cut out for this type of business.  In fact, you need a number of qualities to succeed.  Like:

  • An ability to learn new things
  • A strong work ethic
  • At least 10 hours (each week) of spare time
  • A decent level of writing (and communication) competence

Unfortunately not everyone has these requirements.  Yes, you don’t need a computer background.  But you have to be willing to learn the important things. 

#5 – “You Don’t Need a Paid Website”

Holy crap … this is a horrible piece of Internet marketing advice.

Most people nowadays understand the importance of a website.  However I still see a few ‘businesses’ recommend using freebie sites (like Blogger.com) for hosting.

There’s no excuse for relying on a free website.  In reality, it doesn’t cost a lot of money to start an Internet business.  For instance, here’s the bare minimum you should spend:

These are the exact tools I purchased for my first Internet site.  So I know that’s all you really need.  Honestly, the math works out to be $1 per day.  Anyone can afford this amount!

#6 – “Make Money Online by Teaching People How to Make Money Online”

I see this phenomenon all the time.  Many newbie Internet marketers think the quickest way to make money online is to teach others to do the same.

This is similar to the principles of multilevel marketing (MLM.)  You get people to buy products about building an Internet business.  Then those people get others to purchase these offers.  It’s a vicious cycle where no one learns how to build a real business.

There are literally thousands of profitable topics online.  None are related to the make money online niche.

Example: Over 90% of my income comes from the relationships/dating market.  So I actually don’t make a lot of money from teaching people how to run an Internet business.  Instead I found a profitable niche that’s ignored by the majority of Internet marketers.

All it takes is a little bit of hard to work to find a profitable niche.  (Just check out my PDF “THE Affiliate Research Formula” for more on this.)  

#7 – “Use Money-Making, Turnkey Information Products”

This is a nasty piece of marketing I see advertised all over the place.

You’re promised a website that’s pre-made and ready to make money.  In reality what you get is a piece of junk that’s owned by hundreds (even thousands) of other people.  You can’t make money because everyone is hocking the same piece of crap.  Ultimately this competition drives down the price point to where people are offering a product for $1 or even $.01.

Ask this whenever you see a turnkey offer:

“If this really makes lots of money, why sell it to other people?  Why aren’t they keeping it for themselves?”

Turnkey information products are marketed on the gullibility of many consumers.  It’s pretty easy to get blinded by how much money you can “make” with one of these offers.

#8 – “Start with your Friends and Family…”

This is insidious offline tactic that’s become commonplace with some online businesses.

The idea is simple: You approach your friends and family with an offer.  You get them to buy (usually out of pity.)  Then you leverage their contacts; connecting to more potential customers.  Rinse and repeat till you’re a billionaire.

Want to know the quickest way to destroy a relationship?  Start asking them to purchase your worthless crap.  Sure some might buy.  But deep down they’ll resent you for even asking.

A quality offer should fill an existing need.  Customers should come to you with a problem that your product solves.  Odds are you won’t find these people within your existing network.

An Internet business shouldn’t push people to buy something.  Instead, it should contain an irresistible offer that naturally attracts people to your sphere of influence.  That’s the right way to do it!

#9 – “If you Build it, They Will Come”

You can’t build a website and hope people will find it.  In fact, you’ll need to work as hard (or harder) to drive traffic to it.  This means formulating a traffic plan – One that you follow on a daily basis.

Driving traffic to an Internet business is an ongoing process.  Always think about ways to promote your site because that’s what the competition is doing.

#10 – “Stick to One Source of Web Traffic”

The online game is always evolving.  What works now might not work tomorrow.  This is especially true when it comes to driving traffic.

Example: In 2006, article marketing was the promotional tactic.   Back then, you could write a semi-illiterate article, post it on EzineArticles.com, and have it rank well for a quality keyword.

Nowadays, article marketing has become passé.  They don’t rank well on Google.  And it’s getting increasingly difficult to get any article approved.

My point?  Don’t rely on a single traffic method for your Internet properties.  Look for different ways to promote your site.  Ultimately this helps you stay on top of your niche.

#11 – “Build a Business around Google”

Google Slapped Always keep this in the back of your mind:

“Google is as Google does”

We all use the big G for a variety of things.  That doesn’t mean you should be 100% dependent on its services.  Google will always do what it thinks is best for their business.  They don’t care if a new change wipes out your entire source of income.

So think carefully if you’re completely depended upon:

  • Google Adsense
  • Google Adwords
  • Search Engine Optimization (SEO)
  • YouTube

They can (and will) shut down your account with no explanation.  Use their services to grow your business.  But never put all your eggs in the Google basket.

#12 – “You Don’t Need a List”

Email marketing is the best way to build a long-term business.  So I get annoyed whenever some guru devalues the importance of list building.

Sure there are many ways to build a business without email marketing.  But you’ll leave a lot of money on the table if you’re not using this technique.  No matter what, always include list building into your Internet business model.

Example: Back in the January, I sent an email to my list promoting a new product.  It took me 20 minutes to write and I earned over $5,000.

Plus, this wasn’t an isolated occurrence. I regularly send emails that generate $1000+ in affiliate commissions.  It’s really hard to generate this type of income without a list.

Email marketing is valuable part of any online business.  So don’t let anyone convince you it’s not important.

#13 – “Email your List Every Day”

I’ve encountered a few gurus who recommend emailing every single day.  In my opinion, this is the quickest way to burn a list and lose income.

Once upon a time, it was easy to keep subscribers on a list.  Now people have become ruthless with their inbox.  Email people too much and they’ll quickly unsubscribe from your messages.

Example:   Back in the summer of 2009, I experimented with emailing every single day.  The balance was about 80% content vs. 20% promotional. So overall, I was giving quality information with my messages.

The result?  My open rates decreased by 20% and my overall income dropped by $2000 per month.  (I know this from the extensive tracking that I do with my Internet business.)

Email people with a purpose.  Don’t blast them with message after message.  My *sweet spot* is around 2 to 3 messages a week.  And even that is too much if you’re only sending  promotional offers.

#14 – “Always Use Scarcity to Increase Sales”

Scarcity is one of the best ways to influence people.  Done correctly, you can get the “fence sitters” to take action on an offer.  Problem is this technique has been used WAY too often with Internet marketing.

Your credibility is more important than a few extra sales.  The goal is to turn people into lifelong customers.  That won’t happen if everyone see you as someone who uses scare tactics.

Think of scarcity as a rare spice.  Only use it when there’s a legitimate reason for doing so.

Example:  Last month, I gave a one-week deadline for my information product.  This was legitimate scarcity because my course was fresh on the market and I wanted to reward my longtime readers.  Of course, after the week was up I increased the course to its current price.

#15 – “You Don’t Need to Connect to Other People”

Online entrepreneurs do things on a solo basis.  They start a business by themselves and work from the privacy of their homes.  This makes it easy to develop an isolationist attitude.

Sure, creating an online business is an individual activity.  That doesn’t mean you don’t need to talk to other people.  Extending your network is how you identify opportunities that can’t be found on your own.

#16 – “You Don’t Need an Information Product”

Information products help you:

  • Find people who will promote your “brand”
  • Generate additional income
  • Increase your authority in a niche
  • Add value to your existing content

That’s why I’m surprised at how many people don’t have an info product.  It’s simple.  You need an information product if you’re an Internet marketer.  Never let someone tell you otherwise.

For more on this, check out my free PDF: How to Build a Profitable eBook Empire in 2011.

#17 – “Treat your Audience like they’re Newbies”

Authority FigureNever underestimate the capability of your audience.  In all likelihood, you’re being followed by highly intelligent people who know a lot about your particular topic.  So don’t assume everyone is at the “newbie” level.

I’ve encountered this line of thinking with a lot of websites.  The owners make the mistake of treating their audience like they don’t know a thing.

The end result is they create content that comes across as condescending or unbelievable.

Each follower is an individual person.  Some might be new.  Others will have expert experience.  So do your best to fully explain the concepts.  But also make sure you have content that contains advanced techniques/principles.

#18 – “Make Everything Perfect”

The perfectionist mindset prevents you from getting results.  Many people won’t complete a project because they want it to be perfect.  Ultimately this minimizes the money you can make online.

Work hard to make your products (and content) a cut above the rest. Just don’t fall into the trap of making it 100% perfect.  This will reduce the amount that can be accomplished in your Internet business.

#19 – “Do Something Else Because the Internet is Dead”

Here’s a piece of Internet marketing advice I’ve seen a lot of recently.  Ironically, it’s used to promote an emerging technology product.  (I’m sure that’s not a coincidence.)

I’ll agree the Internet is always changing.  In a few years, we might only use mobile phones and iPads.  That doesn’t mean the Internet is completely dead.  There are still plenty of opportunities in this industry.

My advice is to pay attention to the emerging technologies.  Just don’t jump ship on the Internet simply because a guru tells you to do so.

YOUR Thoughts on Bad Internet Marketing Advice

Now it’s your turn!

Do you agree or disagree with what I consider to be bad advice?  What has been your experience with these recommendations?

Also, I’m sure you’ve encountered faulty advice about Internet marketing.  Probably it’s something that cost you both time and money.

In the comment box below, please post the worst things you’ve heard…

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How to Overcome Self Limiting Beliefs Self-confidence plays an important role in success.  This is especially true when it comes to an online business.  You often face a lot of challenges.  And often the only thing that gets you through these moments is the belief that you will succeed.

Truth is your mindset can make or break what you do online.  It’s been my experience that most people have the potential to make a full-time income.  But they allow “self limiting beliefs” to hold them back. [click to continue…]

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(This article is a guest post by my brother Gene.  Gene has been working with me behind the scenes and on his own internet business for over a year now)

Failure.

That is a word that most people dread.  Everyone wants to be a success.  We want to be liked and admired.

But that dreaded “F” word always pops up. Failure.  This experience is strong enough to make you want to quit and start a new life.

Having an internet business is no different.

Success takes time and effort.  Yes, many times you will fail before you are successful.  Ask just about anybody who has become successful if they have ever failed at any aspect of their journey.  Chances are you will get quite a few stories of missteps and blunders.


The difference between long-term success and failure is the reaction to it.

People who, as Charlie Sheen says are “Winners,” overcome the obstacles.

Yes, failure happens.

Live with it.

Learn from it.

There is a need to change the view on failure.  It is not something that needs to be avoided.  It is a chance to learn something that does not work!

It is not always reaching the destination that defines the man (or woman), but the journey that is taken to get there.  The biggest successes have gone through the biggest failures.

If you are struggling in your internet business…or even if you’re looking for small business opportunities… do not be afraid to try things that are “new” “different” and perhaps even fly in the face of conventional wisdom.  The worst thing that can happen is failure… which is just a chance to learn and grow.

To illustrate the point, here is a list of 10 people who were all hugely successful in their fields.  All of them failed.  Not only did these people fail, but they failed on a massive scale. Yet history still views these successful people who failed as great success stories because they bounced back and succeeded in the end.

Successful People Who Failed:

Thomas Edison: Chances are you have heard of Edison in relation to overcoming failure before.  He was a master of “trial and error”.

When asked about the many thousands of failures he had when trying to create the light-bulb he famously said, “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.“  But there is even more to it than that.  As a child he was thought to be dumb and told that he would never be a success by many of his teachers, because his mind would often wander in class.

Good thing for us that the greatest inventor in history did not listen.

Elvis Presley: You do not need to be a Elvis fan to acknowledge the impact he has had on popular music.  They don’t dub somebody the “King” of a form of music without a great amount of success.

But even for Elvis success came after failure.  His first recordings went nowhere.  After that he tried to join a vocal quartet and was told he, “couldn’t sing”.  Finally, right before he became popular, he was told, “You ain’t goin’ nowhere, son. You ought to go back to drivin’ a truck.”

Michael Jordan: It is hard to imagine it, but the Jordan, who is arguably the greatest basketball player ever, was once cut from his high school team.

As Jordan puts it, “I have missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I have been entrusted to take the game winning shot, and I missed. I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”

Vincent van Gogh: Van Gogh paintings these days sell for incredible amounts of money.  Four of his paintings have sold for more than 100 million dollars.

Yet, Van Gogh is a cautionary tale. In his life he was a failure.

He slowly began to build a “reputation” while he was alive, but he also had a ton of critics.  He burned and destroyed many of his paintings out of frustration and was known to only sell ONE PAINTING.

He did not work to overcome his failure and killed himself.  Soon after his death his work began to garner intense critical and financial success.

Stephen King: King was working as a teacher in rural Maine when he wrote his first novel, “Carrie”.  King had some small success selling short stories previously, but nothing that anyone could create a “career” on.  King submitted “Carrie” 30 times.  King was rejected 30 times.  Before his 31st attempt he threw the manuscript out.  His wife rescued it from the round file and asked him to try one more time.  The rest…is history.

Fred Astaire: During his first screen test an RKO executive noted that Astaire, “Can’t sing. Can’t act. Balding. Can dance a little.”  Despite this initial rejection, Astaire persevered and ended up becoming one of the top actors, singers and dancers of his generation.

Abraham Lincoln: If Lincoln quit when the going got tough, the world might be a very different place.  As a young man Lincoln entered military service in the Black Hawk war as a captain.  Yet left as a private.

With very little formal education, Lincoln taught himself and became a lawyer and congressman.

His real rise to “national” prominence could also be viewed as a, “failure”.  In 1858 Lincoln tried for a seat in the Illinois senate.  This led to a series of hotly contested debates.  (The Lincoln-Douglas debates).  Lincoln lost the senate election, but really impressed a lot of the “right” people, even with his loss.   Two years later he ran for president and won.  Thankfully he did not let lack of formal education, initial failure or setbacks rattle him.

Albert Einstein: If asked to name a genius, most people would come up with the name Albert Einstein.  Yet even for Einstein genius did not come easy.  He had speech difficulties as a child and was once even thought to be mentally handicapped.

As a teen he rebelled against his schools reliance on rote learning and failed.  He tried to test into Zurich Polytechnic, but failed again (although he did very well in the math and physics section…as you might expect).  Einstein buckled down, received the requisite training and applied to Zurich Polytechnic again, and of course was accepted.

A few years later he had a PHD and was recognized as a leading theorist.  A few years after that he had a Nobel prize for physics and began to be recognized as the genius of our modern era.

JK Rowling: Rowling is the perfect example that success can come to anyone at any time.  She is now doing the backstroke through a pool of Harry Potter money, but that was not always the case.  Before Harry Potter became a success she was a divorced mother, living on welfare, going to school and trying to write a novel in her spare time.

Rowling herself said she was the “biggest failure I knew” and credits a lot of her success to her failure.

At a Harvard commencement speech Rowling had this to say, “Failure meant a stripping away of the inessential. I stopped pretending to myself that I was anything other than what I was, and began to direct all my energy to finishing the only work that mattered to me. Had I really succeeded at anything else, I might never have found the determination to succeed in the one area where I truly belonged. I was set free, because my greatest fear had been realized, and I was still alive, and I still had a daughter whom I adored, and I had an old typewriter, and a big idea. And so rock bottom became a solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

Affiliate marketing Without the BSSteve Scott: Okay, my brother is nowhere near as famous or lauded as the previous nine incredible stories.  But perhaps his story is more apropos to those of you trying to create an internet business.  Steve has had his share of failure.  He will tell you about mistakes he has made.  Buying into silly programs that didn’t work.  Maxing out his credit cards while struggling to make his internet business success.  All sorts of obstacles.

Online success is possible. But it is not easy or instant.  It takes hard work and dedication as well as time.

Don’t doubt yourself.

Obstacles are out there.  They are meant to be overcome.

No adventure worth undertaking is easy.  Everyone who achieves success faces obstacles.  What makes (or breaks) a person is how they react to the obstacles and roadblocks in their life and what they do (or do not do) to overcome these setbacks.

Take a hint from the successful people who have failed and do not let these obstacles hold you back.

Now let me know about YOUR missteps and failures.  What have you learned?

Perhaps some historic figure has inspired you the way that the successful people who have failed above have inspired me.  Please share your thoughts in the comments below

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Power of FocusI’ve always believed that building an Internet business is like sipping from a fire hose.  It’s almost impossible to learn just a little.  Because of information overload it’s really hard to know *who* is right about the secrets to online success.

One thing that pisses me off is the idea of the Underachiever Internet Marketer.  He’s that guy (or gal) who makes lot of money from dozens of niches.  What annoys me is many folks believe you can find success by juggling different markets and projects.

I know some people make money doing this.  But also some people make a living as a quarterback of a NFL team.  It takes a very special skill set to manage lots of websites.  Frankly, I think this is a bad strategy for anyone who is getting started online.

I believe in a simple philosophy.  Focus on one niche at a time.  When I say focus, I mean be prepared to spend 2 to 3 YEARS in this market.  Only then, will you be able to build a solid, profitable Internet business.

There’s another reason why I recommend focusing on a single niche.  It’s the best way to provide real value to an audience.  Juggling multiple markets turns you into the proverbial jack-of-all-trades.  You’ll know a little bit about a lot of things.

As an Internet entrepreneur, people come to you seeking top-notch information.  It’s up to YOU to be that person who provides it.

To illustrate this point, take a look at this diagram:

Maslow's Four Stages of Learning

This is the “Four Stages of Learning,” made popular by psychologist Abraham Maslow.  Your goal is to reach the unconscious competence stage.   This is the point where you’re a complete expert on a specific topic.

What’s my point?

It’s impossible to master dozens of different topics.  You won’t be an expert.  Instead you’ll parrot the hard work of others.

Success with niche marketing starts by demonstrating authority in one (maybe two) topics.  People follow you because they seek your knowledge.   It’s this expertise that will make you money.

Juggling dozens of niches is a both a disservice to you and your followers.

Real expertise comes from real involvement in a market.  You need to dive in with both feet.  You need to learn everything you can.

I also believe this philosophy is the best way to maximize online income.  For instance, you’ll get to:

  • Learn the language and buzz words that prospects use
  • Find out what really goes on in the mind of the customer
  • Identify information gaps
  • Reuse and recycle previously published content
  • Spot new products that can generate additional income
  • Network with key figures in a market to expand your reach
  • Build a loyal group of followers who will listen to anything you say

This is just the tip the iceberg.  The possibilities are limitless when you give 100% attention to a niche.  It’s easy to make money when you’re completely immersed in one subject.

Don’t believe me?

Starting in 2006, I focused on a single niche; ignoring all the other “opportunities.”  It wasn’t easy.  But this dedication has led to a full-time income.

Simply put:  One Niche = Full-time Income

Only after four years, did I move into a second niche (this blog.)   I plan on staying here for the long haul because I’m a firm believer in the power of focus.

What Should You Do?

I can’t tell you what to do.  What I suggest is to take a hard look at your Internet business.

Are you overwhelmed because you’re juggling different projects?

If so, my advice is to eliminate what’s not working and focus on that one niche that’s making money.

Yes, this is a radical suggestion.

But it’s one that will pay big dividends in the end.

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It’s been awhile since I’ve published a guest post.  So I’m really excited about today’s post from Danny Iny who runs a marketing training program site.  Here he talks about an important lesson that can increase your motivation.  I’ve found it’s hard to achieve success when you don’t have the proper mindset.  So check out Danny’s article and learn a simple way to accomplish more with your Internet business.


Elephants are pretty powerful creatures.

They weigh in at as much as 24,000 pounds, and stand as high as thirteen feet tall.

Their trunks are agile enough to pick up a single blade of grass, and strong enough to rip branches off of a tree.

Despite their enormous power, elephants can be chained. It doesn’t seem to make sense – what chain is strong enough to hold an elephant who struggles to break it?

The answer is a small one: a small chain fastened to a metal collar around the elephant’s foot is attached to a wooden peg nailed into the ground. This holds the elephant so strongly that it doesn’t ever struggle to break free.

There is an elephant inside each of us – an inspired being of enormous power and capability. And just like the elephants that we might see in a circus, our internal elephants are also put in chains.

How does this happen? [click to continue…]

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It’s 2011.  We now have a fresh start on a brand new year.  Perhaps this year you’ll finally build that Internet business that earns a full-time income.  If you’re already successful online, maybe you’ll learn how to enjoy life more.

No matter what your goals are for 2011, I feel you can achieve them by doing specific things every day.  Specifically I recommend developing 42 “Internet lifestyle” habits in the next year: [click to continue…]

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